Frequently asked questions

What is CoAdvocate.ai?

CoAdvocate.ai is a permanent, secure communication address for separated and divorced parents, plus an AI companion that helps you respond to co-parent messages with clarity and composure. It's built on standard email — no app required on the other end.

Does the other parent need to install anything?

No. Your co-parent sends email to your CoAdvocate.ai address from whatever email client they already use. They don't need to sign up, install an app, or agree to anything. The only requirement is on your end.

How is my CoAdvocate.ai address different from a regular email?

Your address is permanent and never recycled — even if you close your account. It's purpose-built for co-parenting communication: every message is archived immutably, assessed for tone by the AI, and kept separate from your personal email. It's the address courts and attorneys can reference with confidence.

Is my communication private?

Your messages are encrypted in transit and at rest, and your data is not used to train AI models. We don't sell your data or share it with third parties for their own purposes. Like any service, we may disclose data when required by law — for example, a valid subpoena or court order. Separately, your private conversations with the AI companion are kept apart from your evidence record and are never bundled into an evidence export or shown to your attorney through CoAdvocate.ai. See our Privacy Policy for the full details.

Can my attorney access my communication record?

Yes, with your permission. You can grant an attorney, mediator, or other professional scoped access to your CoAdvocate.ai record. That access is strictly limited to your data and can be revoked at any time.

What does "evidence-grade" mean?

It means the archive is immutable and timestamped — messages cannot be altered or deleted after they're received. If you ever need to demonstrate a pattern of behavior in a legal proceeding, the record is already organized and verifiable.

How does the AI companion work?

When a message arrives, the companion reads it for tone, urgency, and intent. It gives you a summary before you read the full message, so you can approach it with context. When you're ready to reply, it helps you draft a response that's calm and factual — you edit and approve everything before it's sent.

When will I get access?

CoAdvocate.ai is in private beta. We're rolling out access carefully. Join the waitlist and we'll reach out when your spot opens — we prioritize based on need.

How much does it cost?

Pricing details will be announced when we exit private beta. During the beta, access is free for invited users.

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